If I could put the content of this video into every Black woman’s mind – I would. Due to my unique life experience I’ve seen more and dealt with far more than most (and likely in a much harsher way than most). Looking back on my dating life when I was in my 20’s and even 30’s, ignorance truly was bliss.
Regardless, I’m glad I took a few journeys (both physically and online) over the years (especially in 2020 and this year 2021). I truly am a “truth seeker”, which is why I warn you (whoever you may be reading this) – be careful should you decide to seek out the truth, because once you learn something, you can’t UN-LEARN it.
Chapter 7 of Shelley Lubben’s book about the pornography industry
Alexandra Mayers reads a portion of, reviews and provides commentary on Chapter Seven of the book “Truth Behind The Fantasy of Porn – The Greatest Illusion on Earth” – written by the recently deceased anti porn activist, Christian and mother Shelley Lubben.
In this commentary, as Alexandra shares a portion of Chapter Seven, she explains how the story Shelley tells about an abusive man she dated (who turned out to be a violent stalker) is a fairly common situation that sex workers (pornstars, escorts and exotic dancers) often find themselves in. In addition Alexandra explains how serial abusers often target sex workers due to law enforcement (and the judicial system) looking down upon sex workers (whether that be the victim’s current OR past occupation).
BEWARE of abusive older men who specifically target young women to date.
A few thoughts as to why young women (35 and under) should be wary of dating men who are 10 years (or more) older than they are – specifically due to such men often being physically and/or psychologically abusive. Oftentimes abusive men seek out naive and inexperienced targets…and though a young woman may be intelligent and mature – by default she lacks the life experience of someone (male or female) who is 10 years her senior (if not older).
Alexandra Mayers LIVE – early morning painting and thoughts – The Gecko
Finishing up repainting this gecko wall hanging while talking about whatever is on my mind (memories, relationships, dating as a single older woman without children, a recommendation to check out the Amazon Prime original series “Good Omens”, future podcasts and other future personal plans).
Over the years I’ve experienced my fair share of relationships… so I’ve learned a lot about myself, and men.
Yesterday an excellent primer (aka blueprint) came to my attention from www.FreedomProgramme.co.uk (via a friend of mine on social media) as to how to differentiate an abusive man from a psychologically healthy and loving man. The material I read impressed me quite a bit, so I decided to put together the video below. Hopefully women who need to stumble upon the material I outline will find it (as my perspective and life path would have been far different had I read this material in my early 20s – I don’t regret my life though…as I believe that everything is as it’s meant to be).
Alexandra Mayers LIVE – Men, Women, Love, politics & Michael Avenatti
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=92NESmq3750
Alexandra Mayers shares her thoughts on how the elements of men, women, love, politics, maturity, the latest news in regards to Michael Avenatti (and Mareli Miniutti) and how it’s ALL intertwined when it comes to life and relationships.
In this video I states the age difference between Donald Trump and his wife Melania is 27 years – it’s actually 24 years. The age difference between Avenatti and his girlfriend Miniutti is 27 years.
If Breitbart News is correct about Michael Avenatti he is unfit to be President in my opinion due to his dating preferences (november 20, 2018)
Today it was reported that 47 year old Michael Avenatti’s arrest stemmed from an argument he had with his (as reported by Breitbart news) 20 year old girlfriend who is from the country of Estonia.
Alexandra Mayers shares in this podcast (which she will follow up later with a video podcast on AlexandraMayersLive.com) that from her perspective at this stage Michael Avenatti is not fit to run for President, because had he not gotten into an argument with his girlfriend – had he been elected President we’d have ANOTHER foreign born First Lady but this time only about 22 or 23 years old.
It is a scientific fact that the human brain is not fully developed untill the age of 25.
Thoughts about, attraction to & relationships with “white” men – part 01
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T8K7vMVMcSM
Alexandra Mayers discusses her thoughts about “white” people, attraction to certain types of “white” men and gives an introduction to both her positive and negative relationships with various “white” men over the years.
This is the first installment of a special Alexandra Mayers LIVE multipart / ongoing series which is meant to explore some elements Alexandra has noticed in regards to racism and individuals who label themselves as “white”